Friday, March 8, 2019

A Meditation in the face of loneliness


2019.3.3 A Meditation in the face of loneliness

Spirit of Life, God of Love, Great Mystery of this Universe—
Some of us come seeking quiet and solitude this morning.  To simply be here together, to be able to pause in life, one individual among many.

Some of us come seeking the known and the familiar, to see a kind face who knows a bit about my life and will ask, how is it today?  Tell me about it.

Some us come tentatively, seeking something, not sure what, but a yearning so clear to be with others, to not be alone today.

Some of us arrive with ease and joy, without a second thought. 

Some of us arrive, finally, after a very long journey, after starts and stops, and detours through other lands, through islands of loneliness.

Some of us arrive with help, with encouragement, after someone found our lonely island and said hey, do you want to come visit a bigger place?

We come aware of our separation, of the differences among us, nervous about how we should act or whether all of who we are will be welcomed.

We come wanting love, wanting recognition, wanting to be seen for who we are.
Some of us come wanting human touch, a hug or a hand shake, because most of the week we don’t have that.

Some of us have children crawling all over us all of the time and just need to feel like a separate person for a while.

Most of us, all of us, come needing to feel safe and in control of our bodies, needing clear boundaries and consent for that hug or handshake. 

We come with all of our invisible “stuff” – all of our hopes and expectations, our personalities and egos, our sorrows, joys, frustrations, quirks, gifts and flaws. Our loneliness.

And here we are, together.  Unique human beings who are both utterly separate and always connected.

What is visible is shallow compared to the invisible: the deeper self we want to bring forth, the sacred and silent pull towards love and acceptance, between you and me.

2019.3.3 "Between You and Me: the Shared World"


2019.3.3          “Between You and Me: the Shared World”  Rev. Laura Bogle



Unitarian Universalist minister and Army chaplain George Tyger reflects on a time when he was deployed overseas for a stretch, and he felt so lonely, missing his family.  His 8 year old son sent him a teddy bear, all dressed up in an Army Combat Uniform, with a note that said, ‘When lonely, press left paw.”  So George did, because he was feeling lonely, and when he pressed that paw out came the recorded voice of his son saying “I Love you, I miss you.”
George writes:  There are some values honored by all faith traditions: compassion in the face of suffering, love in the face of hatred, hope in the face of fear. But on some long, lonely nights, what really matters is closer to our hearts than any of these eternal values. Right now, what matters for me is a stuffed bear dressed in ACUs and a voice that says, “I love you and I miss you.”
George’s loneliness is a kind of loneliness that “makes sense” in a way. 
It’s a situational loneliness, having to do with living far away from his family for a while.  It’s a loneliness that is recognized and even held up as a sacrifice of his service.  It doesn’t make it any less hard, but at least it is seen as valid.

I’ve thought that it would be useful to have different words for different kinds of loneliness in our culture.  You know, like the Inuit people have 50 different words for snow.

There’s the loneliness of having to live far away from your family, or moving to a new place where you don’t know anyone.
There’s the loneliness of feeling left out of your friend’s plans.
There’s the loneliness of being ill or disabled, unable to go out, and feeling isolated.
There’s the loneliness of deep grief, when no one else exactly understands.

There’s the loneliness of being in a group of people, but not feeling like an important part of who you are is seen and recognized or valued. 

There’s the loneliness of being different, the only one in a group of people – the only woman, the only person of color, the only gay man, the only person under 35, the only Unitarian Universalist, the only single person… you get the idea.

There’s the loneliness that can arise in long term relationships or marriages, when one day you realize you’ve been so focused on the kids and the work and the older parents and the house repairs, you have forgotten each other.

There’s the loneliness of really wanting to be partnered or married and you’re not.

There’s the loneliness of leadership-- sticking with your principles and saying or doing something even when it is unpopular.

There’s the loneliness of wandering around the shopping center or the grocery store and in the midst of thousands of things to buy wondering if life has any meaning at all.

There’s the loneliness that can come when living alone—whether you do so by choice or not.

So many kinds of loneliness….On any given day, as we encounter others, how can we tell if someone is lonely?

It’s not just that someone is alone.  Being in solitude doesn’t equal loneliness.

Wouldn’t it be nice if there were a secret sign – some sort of signal that said, “Hey, I need a friend today.”  Because it sure is hard to say it directly. 
It might be even harder to say than admitting an addiction or naming depression. 

Imagine with me for a moment:  walking in here on a Sunday morning and when someone asks how you are doing, simply saying “I’m lonely.”  Or, “I’m feeling lonely today.” 
Maybe hard to imagine for some of us.  Some of us may even have a hard time identifying that loneliness is what we are actually feeling.

Saying “I’m lonely” might be like saying I’m the last one to be picked on the playground.  For someone who is already isolated, that’s just another layer of vulnerability.

Or saying “I’m lonely” might show that everything is not all right in my world of relationships.  For someone who is generally sociable, saying “I’m lonely” might feel like it wouldn’t make sense to anyone else.  How could you be lonely when you have a marriage and kids and a job and community work and a church?

Loneliness is often invisible—either because we don’t really see the folks who are lonely and isolated, or because we don’t understand that we ourselves are lonely. 
Yet it is all around us.

A large study of 20,000 adults published last year indicated that over half the United States rates as lonely according to their scale.
“According to the survey, 54 percent of respondents said they sometimes or always feel that no one knows them very well. Even more (56 percent) reported sometimes or always feeling like the people they’re surrounded with “are not necessarily with them.” (Atlanta Journal Constitution )

Perhaps surprising to some of us-- For younger adults—those born in the 1990s and early 2000s--the rates of loneliness are even higher than for older adults over age 72.  

It’s getting some attention because loneliness is being seen as a public health problem – an epidemic associated with the same kind of health outcomes as smoking 15 cigarettes a day.  Former US Surgeon General Vivek Murthy has noted loneliness as the most common pathology in his professional experiences.

Other work has found that loneliness is contagious, and spreads through social networks through feelings of mistrust and negativity.  If I’m feeling lonely, I am less able to reach out and treat you with unconditional positive regard, so our relationship falters, which leads to you feeling more lonely and that impacts your relationships with other people! And so on…

One of the doctors who worked on a study of how loneliness is contagious, writes: 
“When we pay attention to the experiences of those at the periphery, when we make an effort to prevent this sad experience of loneliness, then we can stabilize the whole social network…. We all benefit when we attend to the needs of those at the margins.”  https://well.blogs.nytimes.com/2009/12/01/why-loneliness-can-be-contagious/
So, how do we do that, faith community?

In our story this morning, fuzzy monkey was one of those at the margins.  Isolated and lonely on their own little island.  While Fish and Parrot reached out, tried to get fuzzy monkey to a bigger island with the other animals.  They were nice, but they weren’t able to help much. 

We learn from their experience that simply reaching out and being nice isn’t much help if you are expecting the lonely person to be like you.  To be able to swim or fly in order to find a place of belonging.

We sometimes do this in our communities and congregations – usually unconsciously, not intentionally.  We individually and collectively build up certain norms and ways of being that say, to belong here you have to be able to swim or fly to get here.  In building our connections and friendships with people who are already here, in the ways that we are used to gathering, we can unintentionally become exclusive just to those people. 

It was SamSam the grandfather turtle who was able to be with Fuzzy Monkey, to accompany Fuzzy Monkey to a new place of belonging.  SamSam did not ask Fuzzy Monkey to learn to swim or fly.  SamSam carried Fuzzy Monkey on their back until they reached solid ground again. 

And then!  The welcome at Bigger Island!  The Shared World!  This is the kind of welcoming I hope we model here in our congregation! 
We are glad you are here.  Tell us about you.
There is a place here for you. Let me show you around.
We will share our food with you – what do you eat?
Do you want to play with us?  You’re invited.
We may not know everything about monkeys but we are willing to learn.
We may not know everything about your particular story, but here is a place where we will reliably say “I Love You” -- just like George’s teddy bear.

Every week we say “Love is the spirit of this fellowship”  -- here is a place where we believe in the shared world that Naomi Shihab Nye described in our reading this morning.  A shared world where even perfect strangers in an airport will cross barriers of language and culture to help a woman feel safe and included, will even sample her cookies, a shared communion.  We believe it is possible and we will act to make it so.

Look around at this bunch of people, and think “this is the world I want to live in.”  The shared world. Not a single person … apprehensive about any other person. We notice one another.  We offer a place to be known, not just a place to fit in.  We offer one another sustenance, in body and soul.  We ask for help and we offer the help that is needed, the help that actually helps.  We carry each other. 

This is the task of religious community.  The root of the word religion is religio to bind together.
But Unitarian Universalists don’t believe we are bound together by creed or class or race or gender or generation or culture or musical taste or whether you like the word God or not. 

We do affirm that we are always, already bound up with one another in a great web of interdependence. That web can transmit loneliness and isolation like a contagion, in fact this is how our current culture is set up.  But we know that web can transmit love and connection and generosity, the shared world, between me and you.

This is how we bless the world: being mindful of that interdependence, living into the truly shared world, making the invisible ties that bind visible, ties of Love rather than disregard. 

If there is a God, this is how I understand God—as that link between you and me where Love can arise, even in the hardest of circumstances, even across differences.

I end with this blessing prayer for all of us by the late Rev. Nancy Shaffer:
May each one among us have… bodies that
want to stand next to other bodies, not alone,
while singing and bending, stirring soup.
…so that no one
stands alone and no one aches and does not say so.

May our doors be so open it is drafty inside,
and people sometimes shout because noises without
come also within. May those sheltered here
sometimes cry, all at once, letting tear
water clean what words by themselves cannot.
In silent times, may every one present hear
every one else breathing, and know this is not
separate from how the world breathes all night.

May we always have enough room for those
many who want to come in. May those who cherish
this {congregation} be so glad they cannot stop speaking,
stop asking, and may that crowding itself be a gladness
as we keep adding rooms. May we notice
each one who is new and invite her to stay.
May our list of names for the Holy not ever
be finished; and may we hear God chuckling
with us as we find still more.

May it be so.  Amen.

Thursday, February 21, 2019

2019.2.3 Can I Get a Witness?


2019.2.3 “Can I Get a Witness?”

What does it mean to be a witness?
Well, you can be on the witness stand, like in a courtroom—being examined and cross-examined.  Giving testimony about what you know, what you saw, what you experienced.
You can also be a witness to faith—giving testimony about how you have been saved, or transformed.  What you know to be true in your own life and experience.  I’d venture a guess that many of us UUs are uncomfortable with this kind of witnessing because it is linked to proselytizing, pressuring others to accept your own faith claims.

Today I want to push us on this a little bit—to broaden our understanding about what it can mean to be a witness as Unitarian Universalists….  In January I was in Arizona, working with groups who provide humanitarian aid on the border, and am fired up to be a witness to what I saw and experienced and learned.
I don’t have to tell you all that we are living in a world of “alternative facts” and fake news.

What is actually true and how do we figure that out?
German Jewish philosopher Hannah Arendt has some guidance for us about this – She herself was an exile, a refugee from the Nazis – she got out of Germany in 1933 and settled in the United States.  Even if you don’t know her you probably know her phrase “the banality of evil.”
I am simplifying here, but what I understand from her is that evil happens when human beings are unable to have a moral conversation – either with themselves or the world.  We have to be able to think and be able to put ourselves into different worlds. 

Academic Leslie Stonebridge studies Hannah Arendt’s writings, and has said “What Arendt wanted was actually something a bit more radical than [empathy], is to imagine something that’s not your world, that makes you feel uncomfortable. And that’s where the work has to start. And that’s why she was also very committed to thinking. To the activity of thinking, which is how you do that. …
And what she called “the banality of evil” was the inability to hear another voice, the inability to have a dialogue either with oneself or the imagination to have a dialogue with the world, the moral world.”

Arendt says truth is always something that happens in dialogue, in relationship.  It is not some solid object out there, waiting to be found.  And this is what makes it different from a fact.  She wrote, in her essay, “Lying in Politics”:
“Factual truths are never compellingly true. The historian knows how vulnerable is the whole texture of facts in which we spend our daily life. It is always in danger of being perforated by single lies, or torn to shreds. Facts need testimony to be remembered and trustworthy domain of human affairs. From this it follows that no factual statement can ever be beyond doubt.”

Facts need testimony in order to be a trustworthy domain. 

So, for instance, when we are having a national conversation about a border wall, we need to hear the testimony of the actual people it will effect.  And we need witnesses to their reality. 
Last year in the run up to the mid-term elections, I saw some political ads that made it seem like we as a country are under attack by alien invasion.  Some folks accept that as truth.
Today, I simply want to share with you a little bit about my experience in Arizona.  From my perspective, in a short amount of time, in one particular place – in and around Tucson.  This is just a glimpse into a much longer story.  This is my testimony.

Slide 1:  Mountains
·       As I landed in Arizona—such an alien landscape.  Sonoran desert.  Seemed like every plant had a thorn.  No water anywhere.  Even in January the sun could be intense during the day.  Cold at night.  Physically being there is quite different from watching it on the news.

Slide 2: Nogales
·       One evening we visited the border town of Nogales around sunset.  As we drove down the interstate I could see the hillside covered in colorful houses.  Suddenly the whole picture came into view and I realized I was looking over into Mexico, and the there was a border wall/fence between us and that place.  Topped with razor wire.  It used to be that you could walk freely from one side to the other here. 
·       Later that night we drove through the checkpoint that is about 25 miles north of the border.  These were set up as “temporary” about 8 or 9 years ago.  Still there.  Every car is stopped and questioned by armed Border Patrol and sniffed by working dogs.

Slide 3: Borderlands UU
·       Later that evening we visited the UU congregation north of the Border in the Amado area.  They just changed their name to Borderlands UU.  In this picture you can see Barb who is a member of that congregation.
·       Barb is a retired nurse, 77 years old.  She is part of the Green Valley Samaritans who leave water and other aid for refugees crossing the Sonoran desert.  She also does other things, like helping people get to safe houses.  She is bold and public and often she is breaking the law.  She says as an older person, she has nothing to lose. 
·       That night we also heard from another person connected to the congregation.  A woman with young children, who is also involved in helping refugees but in a quieter way.  She’s only lived in the area about 5 years, and she told the story about the first time a border crosser knocked on her door for help – which happens fairly often in the area.  It was a 13 year old girl travelling by herself, with bloody feet.  There was a language barrier, but she helped her, sat on the porch together and amazingly figured out how to laugh together.  Because she didn’t know what else to do, Shawna called the Border Patrol that time.  Every time someone has knocked on her door since then—and it has happened several times—she has now called the Samaritans.  Sweet interaction between the two women– both their approaches are needed.

Slide 4:  No More Deaths
·       This picture is of the area of the Sonora Desert called the Arivaca corridor.  The red dots represent places where human remains have been found just during the years 2012-2015.  Since 2004 the organization No More Deaths—No Mas Muertes has been tracking the numbers of people who have died in the desert as they try to cross into the United States.    Because no one else is tracking that information.  Some estimates put the number over 2,000 in the last 20 years.
·       No More Deaths is a ministry of the UU church in Tucson.  They also leave water and food and medical aid for people in the desert.  They choose the locations partly based on what they know about where the most people have died.
·       9 of their volunteers were arrested on misdemeanor charges like littering, abandonment of property.  4 of them were just convicted of these charges and face fines and jail time.  4 more are still awaiting trial.  One of their volunteers is facing felony charges, ironically for “human trafficking” again for giving medical care and humanitarian aid.
·       Canvassing – putting out signs that say “Humanitarian Aid is Never a Crime—Drop the Charges.”

Slide 5: Operation Streamline
·       We spent a whole afternoon with this woman, Lois.  She took us to the federal court where we watched Operation Streamline in action. Over the course of a couple of hours, over 70 people were sentenced to prison time (in privately run prisons) for the crime of crossing the border. After serving time in prisons they will be deported. Lois and others show up to witness every day and monitor what is happening.
·       I won’t go into all the details of Operation Streamline here.  I will emphasize this: the only so-called crime these people were charged with was illegally entering the country, or re-entering.  They were handcuffed and their legs were shackled. 
·       The prison sentences I saw handed out that day totaled 2, 775 days.  At a cost of $161/day to be housed in a privately run for-profit prison, that is a total of almost half a million dollars of tax payer money.  In one afternoon in one courthouse. 
·       Lois also volunteers with No More Deaths. She spent last Saturday looking for someone lost in the desert. She is 84.  The bar has been set very high for retirement.
·       The cartoon she holds reads: “This court finds the No More Deaths Border Samaritans guilty as charged on all counts.
4 counts of premeditated compassion
4 counts of first degree humanity
4 counts of involuntary kindness”

Slide 6: Love greater than Fear
·       I had a little hesitancy about this trip. Should I use the resources in a different way?  What could I really do coming in as an outsider and being there for just a couple of days.
·       What was really clear is that these folks are hungry to be seen, for what is happening there to be witnessed, and they one thing they all said was: go back home and tell the stories.  Testify and witness to what is happening here.
·       But one of the truths that I understood in a new and different way:  the border is not just in California and Arizona and Texas.  Invite Sheri Liles and Karen Petrey up to discuss the local Witnessing Wednesdays.


Closing:
It is crucial that we have witnesses – people watching and being in relationship with those who are the most impacted.  People who can then go tell what they saw.  This is not just about gathering facts to put into an argument, but about searching for the truth.  During our trip, some of us asked a lot of questions.  We wanted to get all the facts down, we wanted to learn as much as possible.  But then one of our trip leaders asked us “What is the deeper question underneath all these questions you are asking?”
·       How can this be happening here?
·       One of the No More Deaths volunteers has asked, “If giving water to someone dying of thirst is illegal, what humanity is left in the law of this country?”
·       What separates me from the border patrol agents, from the lawyers and judges?
·       What separates me from the refugees?  From the mothers separated from their children?
·       What is the deeper truth of my faith and what is it calling me do and be?  What risks would I take to live out your values and potentially save lives?

May we all find our own ways to witness to the Truth.

Wednesday, January 23, 2019

2019.1.20 Seeing Through the Eyes of Love


2019.1.20                   


Video: Movement Leader Bayard Rustin  https://youtu.be/BxhKgnyWcuw
Reflection by guest Rev. Jametta Alston

Video: Movement Leader Ella Baker https://youtu.be/OjCibLwkOaw

Reflection by Rev. Laura Bogle                    
“Ella Baker: Seeing Through the Eyes of Love”

I chose this video clip to show today because it overlays Ella Baker’s words from 1974 with images about how her legacy continues to inform community work today.
In my view she is one of the most important leaders of the civil rights movement in this country—and, like Bayard Rustin, one that most people have never heard about.
Who here learned about Bayard Rustin and Ella Baker in school?
Ella Baker was born in Norfolk, VA, in 1903, and she grew up on land that her grandparents had worked as enslaved people.
After graduating from Shaw University in NC, Ella was in New York City.  She became involved in the Young Negro Cooperative league and then joined the staff of the NAACP.
As the Civil Rights movement began organizing in earnest in the mid-1950’s, Ella along with Bayard Rustin and the Jewish leader Stanley Levinson organized a group in New York called “In Friendship.”  Through this organization they raised money to support the Montgomery bus boycott and the southern civil rights movement as a whole. 
They did the incredibly important work of moving resources from those who had it, especially those in the north, to make sure that the people who were doing the organizing and the protesting and risking a lot, had the money they needed to meet basic needs.
Baker eventually joined the staff of the Southern Christian Leadership Conference in Atlanta.  But perhaps her most important role was as advisor to the Student Nonviolent Coordinating Committee that was founded in 1960. 
Ella Baker believed in and supported the leadership of young people.  In fact she believed strongly in what she called “group-centered leaders” rather than the “leader-centered” style.
She is quoted as saying in 1968, after Dr. King was assassinated, “You see, I think that, to be very honest, the movement made Martin rather than Martin making the movement. This is not a discredit to him. This is, to me, as it should be” (Baker, 19 June 1968).
Ella Baker did the slow, methodical, behind-the-scenes work of inspiring and guiding young people – black and white—into movement action and leadership. 
Cornel West:  “She’s like a jazz musician – it’s call and response.  She’s not pontificating from above, she’s having conversation on the horizontal level.  And that’s genuine leadership, but it’s a different kind of leadership than Martin being charismatic and out there.”
She was deeply committed to the spark of knowledge and agency and leadership present in all people, and bringing that forth. 
Barbara Ransby, who wrote a biography of Baker, says that “she would go into small towns and say, ‘Whom are you reaching out to?’ And she’d tell them that if you’re not reaching out to the town drunk you’re not really working for the rights of black people. The folk who were getting rounded up and thrown in jail had to be included.”” (from:  https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2016/03/14/where-is-black-lives-matter-headed )

This is seeing everyone through the eyes of love, seeing the possibility present in everyone, even those who are broken and need some healing and redemption. 

And she challenged those in positions of power and privilege – white folks—to also see themselves as leaders in the struggle for human rights.  Three weeks after Dr. King was assassinated, Ella Baker was a keynote speaker at a fundraising dinner in New York City for the Southern Conference Education Fund.  And I have to believe that many, if not most of the folks in the room were wealthy liberal white folks, wanting to support the work of the civil rights movement.  She said in that speech: 
“One of the things about the question of racism…that frequently has come up with me is, “Well, we are not guilty, personally.”
Of course you’re not.  I don’t know that there’s anybody in this room that’s carried on a campaign of racism, per se.  But I doubt that there’s anybody in this room who has not, at some point, been guilty of supporting a racist culture. 
And we must search ourselves to find out how we have been guilty.  Not for the sake of just wallowing in our guilt.  But for the sake of facing the fact that the future of our culture—or our country—depends not so much on what black people do as it does depend on what white people do.
Now, this is a hard lesson for some of us.  That the choice as to whether or not we will rid the country of racism, is a choice that white America has to make.”

We still have to make that choice every day.

It is so easy for us to think the Dr. King was the civil rights movement.  But frankly, ya’ll, that lets us off the hook. And what does it say about what is possible today?  If we are waiting for another Dr. King to show us the way, then we are in a place of hopelessness and despair.
What do we know about how the legacy of Ella Baker, and Bayard Rustin, and yes King and so many others lives on today?
For instance, there are direct connections between the leadership legacy of Ella Baker and the way that organizations like Black Lives Matter and the National Domestic Workers Alliance has organized.   It is a legacy of women’s leadership and queer leadership—gifts that very often get overlooked in the mainstream celebration of MLK Day.
Black Lives Matter has chapters all over this country. And while there are three main identified founders—Alicia Garza, Patrice Cullors, and Opal Tometi-- there are many, many leaders.  And, I want to add: those three identified founders are all women, two of them are queer, one of them is a black immigrant. 
Journalist Jelani Cobb writes, “Black Lives Matter emerged as a modern extension of Ella Baker’s thinking—a preference for ten thousand candles rather than a single spotlight. In a way, [Black Lives Matter founders] created the context and the movement created itself.” (New Yorker article)
The National Domestic Workers Alliance centers the experiences of domestic workers like nannies, home care aides, and housekeepers—overwhelmingly women of color.  These unseen workers in our economy are usually not covered by any kind of labor protections.  Abuse and exploitation can happen so easily.  The National Domestic Workers Alliance seeks to build alliances with the people who must employ them, especially disabled folks, elders, and working parents, to lift the standards for working conditions AND the access to this kind of care for everyone who needs it. 
Like Ella Baker and the Student Nonviolent Coordinating Committee:  Very focused on local needs and leadership.  The people most impacted leading the way.  A sense of a “leader-full” movement – not just one well-known leader.
 A focus on personal relationship – really building for the long haul, turning to neighbors and friends and inviting them into the movement, and valuing the range of gifts that people bring.
As contemporary social change facilitator adrienne maree brown says, “If the goal was to increase the love, rather than winning or dominating a constant opponent, I think we could actually imagine liberation from constant oppression. We would suddenly be seeing everything we do, everyone we meet, not through the tactical eyes of war, but through eyes of love.”
Here in Blount County, Blount County United was formed after the shooting of Michael Brown in Ferguson, MO.  Here is a place open to all in our community to engage and participate to support racial justice and equity, right here.  It is an organization doing the dedicated, slow infrastructure and relationship building.  Their next monthly meeting is Saturday, 1pm at St. Paul AMEZion.  All are welcome to attend.  And on Thursday Jan. 31st the Blount County United Education committee will hold an important public workshop:  “The Impact of Structural Racism on Personal and Community Well-being.” This is part of a series of community programs that will use a racial justice lens to look at how public policy affects personal and community well-being.  Attendees will participate in a simulation to help them better understand the impact federal policies have had in creating and sustaining economic inequality. Participation is encouraged by the well-informed as well as those new to this topic.  Our hope is that this experience will inspire individual and community-based actions that produce equitable access, opportunities, treatment, and outcomes for all.

Like Bayard Rustin and Ella Baker, Let us see through the eyes of love, the possibilities present in every community, in every person, in every time.  Seeing through the eyes of love does not mean a weak kind of inaction but this deep love and recognition of interconnection leads to powerful and risky action for social change, including civil disobedience when it is strategic.
Will we take up the charge of our Unitarian Universalist faith that tells us none of us are free until all of us are free?
Will you, will we, take up Ella’s charge:  The willingness to stand by and do what has to be done, when it has to be done.
Only when we do this, can we truthfully say we are living in hope.
May we make it so.  Amen.




2019.1.13 Islands of Sanity


2019.1.13 “Islands of Sanity”     Rev. Laura Bogle

Reading "What This World Needs" by Margaret Wheatley

This world does not need more entrepreneurs.
This world does not need more technology breakthroughs.
This world needs more leaders.
We need leaders who put service over self, who can be steadfast through crises and failures, who want to stay present and make a difference to the people, situations, and causes they care about.
We need leaders who are committed to serving people, who recognize what is being lost in the haste to dominate, ignore, and abuse the human spirit.
We need leaders because leadership has been debased as those who take things to scale or are first to market or dominate the competition or develop killer apps.  Or hold onto power by constantly tightening their stranglehold of fear until people are left lifeless and cowering.
We need leaders now because we have failed to implement what was known to work, what would have prevented or mitigated the rise of hatred, violence, poverty, and ecological destruction.  We have not failed from a lack of ideas and technologies.  We have failed from a lack of will.  The solutions we needed were already here.
Now it is too late.  We cannot solve these global issues globally.  We can see them clearly.  We can understand their root causes. We have evidence of solutions that would have solved them.  But we refused to compromise, to collaborate, to persevere in resolving them as an intelligent, creative species living on one precious planet.
Now it’s up to us, not as global leaders but as local leaders.  We can lead people to create positive changes locally that make life easier and more sustainable, that create possibility in the midst of global decline.
Let us use whatever power and influence we have, working with whatever resources are already available, mobilizing the people who are with us to work for what they care about.

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If climate change has ever led you to feel despair, hopelessness, grief, disorientation, or even nostalgia about how the weather or the land used to be – there’s a word for that: solastalgia.  Solastalgia is a word coined just a couple of years ago by philosopher Glenn Albrecht, who says: “Solastalgia is when your endemic sense of place is being violated.”

The word is being picked up by medical and mental health professionals.
According to the BBC, “Medical journal The Lancet’s 2015 Health and Climate Change report discusses how solastalgia is connected to ‘dis-ease,’ or a lack of ease due to a hostile environment that a person is powerless to do anything about.”

I felt it just this week when my daughter was commenting “It’s never going to snow!”  and I thought, wow I don’t feel like I can tell her any differently.  I have no idea what the weather pattern here will become in her lifetime, and no one else really knows either.

The report released last October by the UN Intergovernmental Panel on Climate Change is enough to send any of us who are paying attention off to bury our heads in the sand.  It is really, really hard to face.  But face it we must, and more and more I believe that the inevitability of climate change and how we as human beings will live in the midst of it is the central question for us as a religious community.

Although I know many of you are familiar with the main points of that report, I want to repeat them here this morning, not to be depressing, but because I think it is important that we say this stuff out loud to one another.

According to the NY Times: “The authors found that if greenhouse gas emissions continue at the current rate, the atmosphere will warm up by as much as 2.7 degrees Fahrenheit (1.5 degrees Celsius) above preindustrial levels by 2040, inundating coastlines and intensifying droughts and poverty. Previous work had focused on estimating the damage if average temperatures were to rise by a larger number, 3.6 degrees Fahrenheit (2 degrees Celsius), because that was the threshold scientists previously considered for the most severe effects of climate change.”

Johan Rockström, a co-author of the recent Hothouse Earth report, said … ““Climate change is occurring earlier and more rapidly than expected. Even at the current level of 1C warming, it is painful….”

According to The Guardian: “The world’s leading climate scientists have warned there is only a dozen years for global warming to be kept to a maximum of 1.5C, beyond which even half a degree will significantly worsen the risks of drought, floods, extreme heat and poverty for hundreds of millions of people.”  https://www.theguardian.com/environment/2018/oct/08/global-warming-must-not-exceed-15c-warns-landmark-un-report

Mind-boggling and very rapid global economic and policy change like the world has never seen would need to occur to keep us to the 2.7 degree Fahrenheit (or 1.5 degree Celsius) warming mark.  Meanwhile we have a  President who has promised to pull us out of the Paris accords, and Brazil, the world’s seventh largest emitter of greenhouse gases has recently elected a leader who vowed to go down that same path.

It is way beyond the scope of one sermon for me to fully explore this, but I am convinced by reading the reflections of many others that the global rise of religious fundamentalism and fascist political ideology is not unconnected to the instability, fear, and uncertainty that global climate change produces.

For 50 years Margaret Wheatley has been working with leaders and organizations around the world. She has worked with grassroots change groups, and large Fortune 500 companies, and even our US military.  The quote you heard comes from her new book “Who Do We Choose to Be? Facing Reality, Claiming Leadership, Restoring Sanity.”  In this book Wheatley lays out the general trajectory of rise and decline that all human civilizations and empires throughout history have cycled through—and points to our place in that cycle today.  We are on the downward slope, and climate change is putting us beyond a tipping point.  As she says “at a certain point, criticality is reached and the system changes rapidly into a new state.” (46)

She writes that “In our bright, shiny, techno-optimistic twenty-first century global culture, we believe we have stepped off the arrow of time.  Our technological and scientific genius gives us the capacity to bypass the fate that has overtaken all other complex civilizations. 

In our arrogance, we believe that we can use our superior intelligence as never before, change history, bounding forward in great leaps, no longer subject to the arrow of time.  We believe we are the height of human evolution rather than just its most recent, predictably problematic manifestation.  The belief in never-ending progress is fueled by our inexplicable arrogance that we can supercede the laws of the Universe.  Our constantly expanding technologies and innovations may appear to be adaptive responses to the environment.  But this is not true.  Quite the opposite:  for the first time in history, humans are changing the global environment rather than adapting to it.” (31)

This trajectory of global environmental collapse touches everything.
Think about the issue of immigration that our country is so divided by – some predict that there could be as many as 300 million climate refugees worldwide by 2050. 
  
Already, the hidden driver behind the migration of Central Americans north is climate change.  They may say they are fleeing violence in cities, which is certainly true, but often they moved to the cities because their crops in the countryside were failing due to drought and disease brought on by changing weather patterns.  Food insecurity is a powerful motivator to move, just like the threat of violence.  And climate change isn’t currently a reason that someone can claim asylum – though there are people working to change that.

Writing last November, long-time climate activist Bill McKibben talked about how climate change is shrinking our planet, as more and more of it will become unfriendly to human habitation.  He says, “Human beings have always experienced wars and truces, crashes and recoveries, famines and terrorism. We’ve endured tyrants and outlasted perverse ideologies. Climate change is different. As a team of scientists recently pointed out in the journal Nature Climate Change, the physical shifts we’re inflicting on the planet will “extend longer than the entire history of human civilization thus far.
The poorest and most vulnerable will pay the highest price. 
…The planet’s diameter will remain eight thousand miles, and its surface will still cover two hundred million square miles. But the earth, for humans, has begun to shrink, under our feet and in our minds.
…a period of contraction is setting in as we lose parts of the habitable earth.”

According to one study, sea level rise alone could displace 13 million people just in the United States.  Think about this—already our community has seen people coming through here, escaping hurricanes and floods to the south and the east of us.  Needing housing, food, work; some never able to go back and rebuild.  Those with resources are able to pick up and move to literal or figurative higher ground, and while still difficult, have a better chance of making a new life;  those without resources will move when they have to, if they can at all, and will depend on a web of support from others to survive.

So right here in Blount County, as we as a congregation are engaged with community organizations creating more support systems for the homeless,  how is climate change intersecting with that work?

We could ask the same question about other issues we care about -- Health care, senior care, education, racial and economic inequality, the health of animals and plants and whole delicate ecosystems.  It is all interconnected.  As John Muir once said, “When we try to pick out anything by itself, we find it hitched to everything else in the Universe.”  This is no place more true than when we are talking about the very planet on which we depend for life.

I know many of us have and are personally taking steps in our every day lives to reduce our “carbon footprint.”  Driving less or driving a hybrid, or eating less meat or no meat at all, reducing how much plastic we use, bringing your own mug on Sunday morning, turning down the thermostat—all those kinds of choices.  And I think those are important things to do, because if nothing else they are a kind of spiritual practice, a daily reminder of commitment, and a way to feel like you can do something. 

And I also believe that there are many amazing steps being taken around the globe towards using more renewable energy, and that gives me hope.  For instance, California has recently committed to making all of its electricity carbon free by the year 2045.  I do not want us to give up on the possibility of making big policy changes, regardless of who is in the White House, that will make a big impact.  I recently met a woman who was involved in an 18 month campaign to stop a high-pressure gas pipeline from being built under the streets of Roxbury, MA.  They didn’t win that campaign but they sure got a lot of attention on the issue and won some smaller victories, like forcing the gas company to admit that they didn’t have a sufficient safety plan.

So, virtuous and ethical personal choices are important. Political and community organizing is important.  Policy change is important.  I find hope in them.  But to be truly hopeful we must grapple with the reality that we aren’t stopping climate change at this point – we are simply trying to make it less worse. 

Who, then, do we choose to be?
For Wheatley, hope lies in our ability as human beings to create and lead what she calls “islands of sanity.”

She asks, “Who do you choose to be for this time?  Are you willing to use whatever power and influence you have to create islands of sanity that evoke and reply on our best human qualities to create, produce, and persevere?”

Islands of sanity are places where people are able to retain their humanity, their human being-ness, no matter what.
How do we remain faithful to our Unitarian Universalist principles and faithful to our basic humanity under conditions of great suffering?  This question is why I think it is important to really face and feel the despair that climate change provokes in us.  Otherwise we aren’t able to act in truly hope-filled, faithful ways.

I’ve been thinking about this for months now.  For me, right now, this is the core reason we exist as a community of faith.  To be an island of sanity, amidst a lot of increasing chaos.  This is what gives me hope for the future – all of you, all of us, and all those many other islands around us with whom we are in relationship.  I want to be clear here, I am not just talking about Unitarian Universalists – that would be the height of arrogance and exceptionalism.  We have a lot to learn from other communities and congregations and organizations – especially those less privileged who have endured and survived through periods of suffering in the past. 

Margaret Wheatley sets out some good questions to consider whether your organization is developing as an island of sanity.  (pp. 55-56)
What is the quality of relationships?  Are people willing to really be there for one another?  Are people more self-protective or less so?  Every week we when we affirm our covenant we promise “to help one another.”  Are we living that out?
Are we expressing more fear?  Or more love?
When a crisis happens, are we using our values to resolve the crisis, or are we being reactive?  Are we thinking long-term when we approach challenges?
Is there a high level of willingness to contribute?  And do we have high expectations about those contributions?
In regards to financial matters, do we have a sense of abundance or do we protect what we see as scarce resources?  “Has selfishness replaced service?”

I encourage our leadership to be asking these questions of one another.  And let’s keep asking each other and ourselves, given the reality of climate change, who are we choosing to be now and in the future? 

This week several people in our congregation will be gathering to do some visioning about our service and justice work into the future.  (And if you are interested in that conversation, please talk to me or Board President.)  Let’s keep these questions in mind as we do so. 

In addition, I am challenging all of us in these two specific ways:
1) I want to learn more and be in conversation with each other about what is happening with climate change and how we are called to respond here where we are.  In April I’ll be leading a conversation on one book entitled “Justice on Earth: People of Faith Working at the intersections of Race, Class, and the Environment.”  If there is interest, I will lead on ongoing study and reflection group bringing in other resources.  So, let me know if you are interested.
2)    The second way I want to challenge all of us right now is to remain open to our neighbors.  As climate unpredictability increases, and resources become more scarce it will be very easy to circle the wagons and protect what is ours.  Right now the dynamics of division in this country are encouraging us in that mindset.  It is very easy to objectify “the other” across the political divide – often in a sarcastic or funny way that releases tension but nevertheless dehumanizes. 
I see this a lot on social media.  I want to challenge us to take all our neighbors seriously enough to engage in public on the issues, with compassion and vulnerability.  We don’t have to like people who think differently than us, we don’t even have to give any time or credence to their viewpoints, but we are called by our faith to remember that they are human beings who suffer like us.  As even climate deniers will be impacted by climate change, will our compassion be there for them too?

Community organizer Sendolo Diaminah has said:  “Organizations are actually networks of coordinated promises….  They are ways of being with each other that allow us to coordinate our commitments and therefore have more power to shape (that is be in a relationship of agency with) the future.”

How are we as an organization shaping the future?  I am not optimistic about the future of our planet.  But that does not mean I am not hopeful. Climate change will force us into different ways of living.  I am hopeful because I still believe that we human beings can choose the way of love, the way of compassion, the way of sharing resources, the way of adapting using our highest values.

Rebecca Solnit reminds us that despair is just another kind of certainty, and our spiritual task is to live hopefully in uncertainty.  In her 2017 essay “Why Giving Up Hope is Not an Option” she says, “Optimism assumes that all will go well without our effort; pessimism assumes it’s all irredeemable; both let us stay home and do nothing. Hope for me has meant a sense that the future is unpredictable, and that we don’t actually know what will happen, but know we may be able write it ourselves.”

Let us all consider ourselves as leaders from the future, knowing that the choices we make today will impact far, far beyond our lifetimes.
Let us open to the despair enough to be truly moved to change and action.
Let us remember that the promises we make to ourselves and to one another, and our ability to lives out those promises, is the hope we seek.
And let us never forget that we need each other, we need to stay together, for that hope to flourish and grow.
May it be so, may we make it so.  Amen.